The First 5 Things to Do When You Get Engaged!

Chiell Ann
Sep 10, 2020
2 min read

Updated: May 5

Person joyfully throwing confetti against a pink background, wearing a white fluffy top. Gold and white confetti fills the air.

Cue the happy dance! 🥳

CONGRATULATIONS! You’re officially engaged—and we couldn’t be more thrilled for you! From the moment you said "yes," everything changed. This is a joyful season full of love, celebration, and sparkle (hello, ring ✨).

Before you dive headfirst into planning, take a breath. This is your time—savor every second of it.

Ready to begin? Here are the first 5 things to do after you get engaged:

1. Just Engaged? Breathe and Soak It In

Neon pink sign reading "and breathe" on a lush green plant wall. The vibrant setting is calming and serene.

You did it—you’re engaged! Let the moment sink in. Flash that ring, toast with your people, and enjoy the rush of love and laughter. Don’t rush into planning mode just yet. There’s beauty in pausing and being present.

2. Newly Engaged? Set Your Timeframe & Budget

Wedding invitation suite on white fabric, featuring a calendar, "Love" envelope, and gold accents, exuding elegance and romance.

Think about what season speaks to you—spring blooms, summer sunsets, cozy fall tones? Your timeframe sets the tone for your wedding vibe. Once that’s decided, chat with your partner about your total budget. Knowing your number gives you clarity and confidence moving forward.

3. Engaged & Estimating? Start with Your Guest Count

Wooden seating chart with table numbers and names in white cards, "find your seat" at top. Fern and draped curtain in background.

Big celebration or intimate affair? Even a rough estimate helps shape your venue search, vendor quotes, and overall costs. Micro-weddings are still trending—and totally magical—if you're looking to keep things cozy and meaningful.

4. Dreaming Big? Start Venue Inspiration

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Close your eyes and imagine your day—are you under twinkling lights in a backyard? Toasting at a vineyard? Dancing in an elegant ballroom? Start saving ideas and exploring venues that match your dream vibe.

5. Engaged and Ready to Plan? Book Your Dream Vendors

Now the fun really begins! Start scheduling consultations with top-tier vendors—Planner, Photographer, and Venue should top your list. These pros will help bring your vision to life and keep your day running smoothly. We're here to help bring your vision to life. Schedule your FREE consultation today—we’d love to be part of your story!

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